do you ever wonder…
Posted by Lesa on October 13th, 2009 filed in daily life, organize, unschoolingif you’re doing enough?
Meaning, are we making our unschooling lives full enough that there is no need for curriculum?
After a few months of seemingly nothing really going on in our lives but the daily grind, I wonder if I’m doing enough. DD spends many of her days online, working on building websites for her *other* worlds (mainly The Warrior series and Naruto), talking on chat pretending to be cats in this Warrior world, and chatting with friends on the website set-up as our homeschool group’s social network. She found a Paint-like program online and drew some digital pictures on there for her sites and last week I showed her the Paint program on her computer, and she’s been taking pics from the web and altering them and then adding them to Photobucket and sometimes to her websites. She’s also been making a scrapbook to put her ribbons and awards in from stuff she’s participated in, in the past.
She’s back to her weekly routine of dance and sports. Dance 3 nights a week (T, W, Th), tennis on Fridays, Nutcracker practice on Sundays and in Nov, golf on Mondays. She also has co-op on Thurs afternoons. Other than that, we haven’t been doing much. Heck, there’s no money to do much more than that. I used to be the queen of free… I knew what was going on in the area to do that didn’t cost any money or very little but I haven’t kept up on that. Maybe I just got burnt out. IDK. I guess I’ve just been feeling like I haven’t been doing enough facilitating.
We’ve had great ideas of things we want to do, but just haven’t done them. She’ll get busy doing her thing and I get busy doing mine and we just never get to doing these other things.
I know this is stuff that I can change. I suppose that I’m just venting my worries so that they don’t overwhelm me. I’m very visual. I need to write things down. I think that writing things out so that I can see them helps me to focus and get back on track.
I’d enjoy feedback. :)

















October 13th, 2009 at 5:06 PM
Yep, been there.
Writing it down helps, even for our own sanity.
I foudn there’s seasons or tides, if you will, where it seems they don’t do much, but then there will be an upswing of activity.
in the end, even those with a curriculumn still feel they aren’t doing “enough”. Whatever that is.
you can’t cover it all, that’s what life is for.
October 13th, 2009 at 9:29 PM
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October 19th, 2009 at 8:18 AM
I really think that learning ‘ebbs and flows’. Everyone needs a period of consolidation where you recharge batteries.
And for someone who ‘isn’t doing anything’ your daughter sure sounds like she is doing a lot!
I am sure when you are both ready, something will trigger a new phase for you both.
best wishes, Julie.
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October 19th, 2009 at 9:54 PM
I just had to post and send encourgement. My 6 kids are unschooled and yet we are in a period also of just relaxation, tv watching adn riding horses. Try not to worry, something will come to us eventually that we want to pursue! Janis
October 19th, 2009 at 9:55 PM
My 6 kids and I are there too right now, but have condfidence, something interesting will engage us soon. Enjoy the rest:)
Janis